A Beautiful Phase in Life! Seeing the post title, many goes into a thought that post must be related to some love phase...but...not!! J
Hmm yes..!! As you have thought, that's true. A love phase, but it's Love to self..! J
Don't get disappointed...just go on...!
In every one's life, at one particular phase ''TIME'' bombards you with lot many questions, to let you know your mere existence in this universe!
It may start like this...
What am i doing?
How is it going to help me?
Am i happy with this?
What for i'm doing this?
After getting the expected (interms of money or fame or love)..What am i going to do...
Is this the reason i was born?
Am i neglecting something in me?
Is there anything more and useful that needs to be done by me?
Everyone comes to this world for a reason....then what is that for me....am i in the right path to achieve it?
..........and so on so forth.......these kind of questions in our mind will never have an end if we start thinking........
And poor thing in many of our lives is that we hardly find time to think..! very very buzieeeee lives..!!
But please try to take some time for yourself, the result of this is out of expressions..!!(though i have experienced this for only once...i have felt some difference...so started sharing immediately... J)
Also many of us will never show interest..as this sounds philosophical to them...but they say they want to live life happily without any such thoughts ruining their life....that happens with their pure innocence towards life...
coz philosophy is nothing but love for life..love for wisdom...which even they and everyone aspire for....
So guys...just go on...J
Though i dont have much insight and experience on these...i can put out some views that come to my mind in daily living.
After reading some articles..few of them gave me a subtle answer for which i'm searching for...so wanna share some points with you..as all of you might not go through the same i have gone through.
The question is simple.. Why are we here...
Though everyone is not here for very great purposes like gaining freedom for countries...serving the poor...etc., etc.,but what i mean to say is...just find out your purpose for life...that might be as small as...owning a house...living happily...making others happy...anything....that might be for you..or for others...notice it...as lives are getting routine day by day...i felt we are trying to welcome anything new that may happen..by not somebody from outside...it's by someone who is inside..!!
Now your mind may ask...What is this all for..i am contended with what i'm right now...before answering this...i wanna share a line here...(all of us knew this)
When we were born...we were crying...as everyone around us are smiling and happy...
and when we die...????(dont end up saying everyone cries...)what about you....(line though says when you smile..people around you cries..)Just think how can you smile at your death bed if you have led too busy life...without spending time with your spouse,children,friends,relatives...(they will also not cry as you didnt maintain a good relation.. ;)..anywaz..back to the point...)..most importantly you....
So lemme share few things on how you can notice it...most probable solution...not so easy though...
coz people generally sitting with partner/girlfriend/boyfriend feels easy than sitting with themselves... J ;)...
Though its hard..try to make some space for you..only you...
Make sure that no one disturbs you...you can take an off from work and go some where..if you love nature..if home is heaven...sit in your room..;)..els where ever you are comfortable....
Dont expect that..i will say to sit and start meditating..J..never...coz we sleep to the heaven..i know.. J..
Be awake...calm down....(of course kind of meditation = mediating yourself to your soul..now we are trying to connect ourselves...don curse.. J )
Slowly...start asking few questions..and try to get an answer....if you think deep...you will get an answer...dats for sure..coz you reason out many things when you think...
"The solutions are all simple...once you have found them...But they are simple..only when you know what they are..."
Try for small one and take the bigdeal later... J..you will know the effect of this..!!
Few of us may think..."Ha i know this..!!"...den its fine...just check out in your life..there will be lot many un noticed issues..though those clinger our mind n lives daily...then how can we say we are happiest...
If you say you know this and practiced this...then clear all your silly issues the same way...why are you keeping your life incomplete...
"Postponement is the very most common gene we indians share..."....out of topic...bak again..
Rolling back to our point of sitting and thinking..questions...
What kind of questions triggers your mind and life...differs from person to person...
The common ones may go this way..
As in intial stage...and as we are all very great dreamers...dream...picture yourself in certain situations..and think how you would act or bring up a solution...
like...
What would you do if you cannot fail anytime in anything. Always Success..and whatever you say..just rules...like this...
We used to play when we are small...what would you do if you can disappear..what would you do if you have some millions of dollars....etc.,
Jus start thinking...dream it…
Also..if you have only like 6 months to live..what would you like do..and how would you spend the time…(Similar to dasvidaniya.. J)
And then goes like..how can you describe your life…
..Only one cause which you could fight for…What gives fulfillment for your life..
Also think of the times..when you felt empowered…
Here I would like to share one thing…Many of us will have a perception for example, just think you have been planning a tour with most fun loving friends..and it was planned to be the mos adventurous..mos awaiting…etc.,With lot of enthu and xpecting great xperiences ahead…finally you plan for it one day…and that also involves friends of friends…which you don lyk as a part of travel..but you somehow you make up your mind and start off to the trip.
And as xpected…you were njoying to the max..having pics…lot of adventures…n all…at the end of the day…if you observe…you must have acted at some moments in the day…which is not real you….you did that just for the sake of something els..mabbe like being humble to your friend of friend inorder make him happy..or something...and now next day…the same guy must not have reacted back to you the same way when you expected it…then you regret over it..for sure…right?...now at that moment honestly…you curse him at your heart…and forget it…and move on..finally the trip comes to an end as you have planned. Of course your must be feeling that you are atmost satisfied…And then after…whenever you see your pics or think of the trip…the very first thing comes to your heart is all about when you felt bad in the trip..and then comes out all the ecstacies you have faced…how many of us can say this is false??...
This happens with almost all of us…
Now I want to say…take this to our own lives….think you got to know which and where we can compare to our own life…depends on ones own interpretation… J…
Now think…how well you colud have made a difference to your trip..many answers come to our minds right??..just the same way..when you are in any confusion..jus state your problem infront of your mind..and think...that will sure makes a difference...
Also you must have left this then and there in the trip..but donno why we carry it..we carry..but those small things are like thorn bed..which constantly hurts us sometimes..
And also I'm not saying that everything in this world can be solved by us....take help and support from the people you feel like asking..probably who can think from all sides...state your problem infront of them and see which solution suits you best....ofcourse we do this all time..!! J
Again back to the topic.. J
During this Questionaire to your mind...at some point of time....at one answer...we feel extremely emotional itseems...coz i'm also in the way of finding it...emotional in the sense..."a kind of joy which you have'nt faced before...and tears may roll out...and at that point of time...you would feel like...yes...!!!..i'm knowing some reasons..."..
And this questionaire is not so simple as it's been put up here...there are posts which tell..like this took them some days..months...mabbe years...to discover...so friends....pay patience with attention...because..it's our life..we are doing all things for us and for our people...n mabbe for our nation..if reason demands..!! J
When you are in this mood...don forget to have a pen and paper with you....you need to filter out the reason from many later..don stop the flow of thoughts....
Later...go through them..analize them..all are not suitable for lives for sure...think about them keeping in your mind about your capability to achieve..fianancial status...will power...man power...and all...after this you will get one!!!which is ultimate...for which you are here..!!
And don get disappointed that still you din get anything as stated above...go on..don leave...
As, if you start thinking...for example...on passion of yours....you can write a book..what all you would like to do...out of which...few mabbe very near to your heart...and one will be the real passion...the same way...
And please i've seen another true article commenting on these kind of stuff...it goes like this...
If you like coffee don blindly go away and open a cafe...or as you like food don go and start a hotel...
Hope you got it...see..what they meant to say is...think you opened a coffee day...as you love coffee...and in early days..you would be very happy that you are earning on your passion....few days later...do you think just the money you are getting on a coffee is going to be sufficient to you...slowly you lose the interest and brood over...(i'm not saying for the people who are capable of maintaing CCD kind of companies..J)..just wanna clear the misconceptions of passion and profession....for some both mabbe the same..but not for all...remember!!
So think-ask-know-analyse-try-act/follow....don ruin your lives by a wrong step..!!coz our life is too short...as we all know...been unutilizing it till now...atleast lets spend tym on it...and enjoy till we die....J
Just Think once....Are your thoughts are worthy enough?If not now...NOW...is the time to change them.It's not knowledge,or wisdom, or insight...ACTION is required...take the plunge..!!Though you may feel like jumping blind fold from the top of a moutain intially...but later you start flying..!!!have faith in yourself.
Nothing matters...just this moment..on what you are thinking...and on what you are focussing your attention..!!
For You..Universe will rearrange itself..accordingly...trust!!
Uhhhh!!! this was my first blog....and put out lot many things...which are on my mind...ll feel greatful to those persons who made me to think and to time which made me to read those...
and finally want to conclude in short..
BREAK YOUR DAILY ROUTINE
GET AWAY FROM ALL
BE ALONE
SPEND TIME WITH "YOU"
GET INTO INCUBATION OF THOUGHTS
MAKE YOUR SUB-CONSCIOUS MIND ACTIVE
FEED IT WITH ALL THESE THOUGHTS
AND GET THE RESULT OUT OF IT
IT ANSWERS ONLY WHEN YOU QUESTION!
THEN CALM DOWN..RELAX..AFTER ALL THOUGHTS FLEW AWAY SHOWING CLEARLY ONLY ONE GOAL
THEN...ONLY THEN...YOU REALIZE THE "KICK"...OR ELSE REPEAT THE PROCESS..THE REASON MIGHT BE BIG OR SMALL..
YOU MAY FIND IT FOR THE WHOLE LIFE OR MABBE SHORT TERM GOALS..WHAT EVER..
GIVE A TRY!!
Thank you for reading the complete blog..!!!...forgive if your feelings are hurt or disturbed..or if someone feels...that i wasted their time...
People who thot this would help can also let me know that is there any other way to find out our reason...or els any other beautiful phase...anything...feel free to share...
We can learn from others too... J..as again life is too short to experience all in one's life... J
TNQ!!
J
